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Are you tired of one-word answers, sighs, and disrespect?

Do you want to bridge the gulf between you and your teen, and start to really understand and relate to each other?

Then this book is exactly what you are looking for.

Written by a real parent for real parents, “Help Me With My Teenager! A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents that Works” is specifically aimed at helping parents build a better relationship with their teenage children. Right now!

Unlike most “parenting your teen” tomes, this isn’t a book written by some psychologist telling you how to be a parent – you already know how to do that. Instead, this is a book written to help you better understand and relate to your teen.

You’re not alone!

Author Christina Botto  knows the frustration you're feeling - form personal experience and because she has worked with hundreds of parents just like you. It seems no matter how hard you try, you can't escape the endless arguments with and disrespect from your teen.

But Christina has learned how to deal constructively with this age group! In her book, she shares her proven strategies, comprised of more than 19 years of working with parents and their teens. And she writes with a clear purpose – to help parents just like you!

Our home was a place of constant nagging and resentment, and conflict. This book is helping me to not get angry at my teen; the conversation examples are extremely helpful. It is a VERY practical book that is not bogged down in theory. It has been a great inspiration to me and gives me the courage to face another day with my teen.

Ellen Keegan, Winston-Salem, NC
Help Me With My Teenager
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I love this book! It is written with concern and compassion for both, the parent as well as the teen. It explains teen behavior and gives many examples of successfully interacting with teens. I highly recommend this book to any parent with teens.

Doug Hitch
Southfield, MI

About the Book

Written in an easy-to-read manner, “Help Me With My Teenager! A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents that Works” dives right into solutions without making you jump through impossible hoops to get results.

Main points:

  • Understanding why teenagers behave the way they do and what motivates them
  • How to successfully engage teenagers in conversation that will open the lines of communication
  • How to help teens smoothly transition from a child to a young adult
  • How to remain active in a teen’s life – without being seen as obtrusive
  • How to set limits and boundaries in a way that teenagers will accept them

Being a teenager today is much different than it was just twenty short years ago. What motivated you as a teen may not necessarily motivate your teenage children. That’s why a depth of understanding is essential - once you understand where your teen is coming from and why they do what they do, it becomes much easier to relate to them (and they to you.)

In addition, you, being the adult, are the one that will need to take the step. There are precious few “how to relate to your parents” books out there (and no teen worth their salt would read them anyway.)

parenting teenagers, raising teens

Teenagers have their own world, and their own culture. And it’s very different than the one you remember.

If you’re interested in improving life with your teen, "Help Me With My Teenager! A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents that Works"  will give you the tools to start creating the relationship you really want.

Here are some of the strategies the book covers in detail…

  • Understanding the way your teenager perceives the world
  • Developing a clear picture of how to approach your teen to avoid conflict (get the results you want).
  • How to get your teen to communicate with you again, even if all he ever says anymore is “Nothing” and “You don’t understand”
  • How to successfully avoid arguments by applying selective hearing
  • How to deal with answering back and always having the last word
  • How to keep your teen talking (and not arguing)
  • Why teens think you don’t listen
  • Giving your teenager room to grow
  • Where/how to start giving your teen some responsibility
  • How to get your teen to work with you instead of against you
  • How to successfully teach your teenager problem solving skills
  • How to protect your teenager without being overprotective (vital!)
  • Get to know his or her friends without being seen as an embarrassment to your teen
  • How to build your teen's self-worth and an enhanced ability to resist peer pressure
  • How to prepare him or her for the freedom of the driver’s license (a big step)
  • Why teens need limits
  • Set limits that your teenager will accept and which he or she will be glad to adhere to
  • Be in control without being controlling
  • How to manage hot points such as curfew, driving, Internet, peer pressure, back talk, and more
  • How to diffuse an especially explosive situation through humor, flexibility, and the ability to think outside the box
  • Why your teenager needs you more than ever – even if he acts otherwise
  • Fresh ideas and examples on spending time with and enjoying your teen (done correctly, they will want to spend time with you, and you won't be in such a hurry to have them leave!)

The strategies presented by Botto are not difficult to implement. They are also not “highbrow” in any way - This is “real” advice for “real” people. And it’s advice that works. Listen to what other parents have to say:

The book thus far has been very validating. As I read each chapter I find myself thinking yeah my son says that or does that. It really helps put things in perspective. The tips to improve the relationships between parent and child are very logical and easy to apply.

Melissa Hendrickson
Sedro Woolley, WA

This has some great tips on what to expect from teens (trouble) and how to cope with it. It's uncanny how accurate some of the description of behavior patterns are - my daughter shows many of the same patterns, uses the same strategies, and even repeats some of the same arguments nearly word-for-word, as though she were reading from a script. Not only will this book help you hang onto your sanity, but it shows parents how to send them the message that rage, bitterness, and emotional tirades don't work.

Bryan Mulligan

My daughter enjoyed her freedom, and still respected the rules and boundaries I set. I was at her side when she turned from a girl to a young lady, enjoying and experiencing changes and accomplishments - and so can you!

Christina Botto
Help Me With My Teenager
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“Help Me With My Teenager! A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents that Works” gives you the knowledge and tools you need to be more effective in dealing with your teenager. It shows you parenting techniques that Christina has learned the hard way.

STOP struggling with a teen that is disrespectful. Put an end to being frustrated and exhausted from arguing constantly. No more “walking on eggshells” around your teen, trying to avoid conflicts.

“Help Me With My Teenager! A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents that Works”  will give you back the respect you deserve and the authority your teen actually needs from you.

Are you ready to learn what moves and motivates your teen? Do you want to build a mutually respectful relationship with your teen – and still be in charge? Then get "Help Me With My Teenager! A Step-by-Step Guide for Parents that Works" NOW!

Christina has been such a help to me raising my son. He and I now have clearly defined roles and boundaries, and we are closer than ever. Thank you Christina for your advice, your patience, and your grace.

Timothy Ready
Ocala, FL
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I hope you all can get this email to Christina. I am the father of a 16 year old son. Last night he and I had an episode. I went to the net, looking for articles on parenting angry teenagers. I saw a short article on Christina's book and bought it in a matter of seconds. I read most of it last night. It's as though she was describing me and my son. Her book is fantastic. Thank you for the insight, Christina.

Clifford Williams
Baton Rouge, LA

This guide is a no nonsense “how-to” that is likely to save many relationships. If you need a little guidance, a friendly whisper in the ear about what works and what doesn’t, teen behavior expert Christina Botto is here for you….Must Read!

Heather Froeschl